Parents Stand up and fight for the right of your child against pedophiles. No more complacency.
The definition of pedophile is adult who are attracted to children.
Psychology defines the pedophile as a psychological disorder when someone turns to children for sexual gratification.
Textbook defines a pedophiles is any adult or child that fantasizes about sexual activities with a minor.
Statistics show that one out of three girls and one out of six boys will have sexual contact with an adult in this country.
WHO ARE THE PREDATORS?
They are your minister, your priest, your friend of the family, neighbors, uncles, aunts or mothers or fathers.
LET’S LOOK A LITTLE CLOSER AT THE FEMALE PEDOPHILES
There are three classifications of women pedophiles
Those women who like children under six-years-of-age. These are women who were victimized in their own childhood homes.
When a child is disobedient, the female pedophile will see them as being deliberately malicious or rebellious. Sexual abuse is used as revenge or punishment. Often this child is unwanted because they are told, “Your dad left me because you’re a girl and not a boy.”
Victims outside of the house are achieved by grooming a friend of the family or babysitting for a couple. She then worms her way to be alone with them, abuses, confuses them, and sends them home. She is able to convince the victim this is “normal” or this is how people display caring.
Some women feel molestation is a way to connect with a child or “Loving” the child.” The way her mother or father did. To clarify this, just because one was molested as a child doesn’t mean this individual will become a molester as an adult.
Are women seeking to have sexual relations with adolescents like a teacher such as Mary Kay Letourneau, an intermediate teacher who bore a 12-year-old boy, two children. Her statement was “We are the on the same maturity level. We understand each other.”
Female pedophiles lack self-esteem, are co-dependents and afraid of rejection. If the child doesn’t want, what she wants. She blames herself because she didn’t provide enough gifts or affection.
Sometimes predators will threaten the child. This more emotional than it is physical. They might threaten to tell their parents of the child or humiliate the child in front of their peers, or they could possibly with hold good grades.
Sometimes the pedophile may convince her she has consent by the victim to have sexual relations
Women typically have sexual relations with another male who is a pedophile as well. She may start by attempting to please her partner. He might give her an ultimatum or use emotional blackmail and say, he’s going to leave. She will molest a child in order to keep her partner with her.
Another example is when the mother is jealous because her husband appears to enjoy sex with their child than he does her. So, she will out of jealousy will molest her daughter.
Sometimes women will offer their baby as sex toys in order to have a man.
Dr. Anna Salter author of “Pedophiles” states women are prosecuted like men because no one wants to believe the child’s own mother could do such a thing.
REASON WHY A CHILD IS TARGETED
1. Invulnerability of the child – The key is children who need love and attention. They need to feel wanted and feel they don’t get this at home. For a parent to take an interest is their child acts as a deterrent to the child’s victimization.
2. Predators need opportunity – If parent is actively involved with his/her own child activities outside of school, this acts as a deterrent for the predator.
The older the victims are the more likely the pedophile leans towards a specific gender. The younger the victim is the less likely gender matters.
This is just tip of the iceberg in information that a concerned person can learn in ways to avoid having their child become a victim. For me, the one thing the parent must do is be a police parent. For an older child, the parent needs to know what their child is doing on the internet.
5% of parents of older teens do not track where the teens are on the internet.
42% parents don’t review teen chats that are read or typed.
95% parents don’t recognize jargon used online when a parent is around.
Example: POS Parent over shoulder
P911 Parent Alert
72% of teens will meet predators several times for sexual encounters
½ the time the teens are in love or have a close friendship with the predator.
25% will run away to be with a predator.
WHAT HAPPENS TO THE CHILD VICTIMS
Often families fall apart. Romantic addictions lead kids to seclusions. Friends ostracize them. Sometimes victims become the predator and victimize others. Depression, alcohol and nightmares haunt them for the rest of their lives.
California Congressman Reprehensive Jackie Speler wants to federalize state law, which prohibits counseling to change a person’s sexual orientation. A pedophile is a sexual orientation. Under the bill, a mental health counselor could be sanctioned if an attempt is made to get a pedophile or gay individual to change their behavior or speak negatively about their behavior.
Florida State Reprehensive from District 20, Alicee Hastings states alternative life styles under the law should allow Pedophiles should be equality embraced.
California SB1172 places some braces on pedophiles and what they can do as an occupation U.S. District Judge Court William Shute such a preschool teacher. However, struck down this amendment and determined their right to freedom under the first amendment. I ask this, what about the right of the child? Are they not protected under the constitution’s first amendment rights as well?
Common Core text portrays pedophilia as innocent and tender. One novel recommended reading with graphic sexual material is assigned and is called “The Blues Eyes by Toni Morrison.
Here is an excerpt for this book. Pg. 174 “…He further limited his interests to little girls. They were manageable. His sexuality was anything but lewd. His patronage of little girls smacked of innocence was associated in his mind with cleanliness. Later this pedophile notes, “I work only through the Lord. He sometimes uses people to help people.”
My question is who is his Lord. Certainly, his lord is not my Lord, The God of the Ages, and The God of the Creation. No my God finds this type of action as an abomination.
I want to leave you with these parting words. All societies who participate in pedophilia, the Hitties, Canaanites, the Greeks and the Romans eventually collapse due to corruption and depravity.
Is this what you want to happen to your country? We are headed at an escalated pace towards destruction.
However, God is able to change and to meet whatever problem, you have. I Mark 11:23 & 24 Truly, I say to you, whoever says to this mountain, ‘Be taken up and thrown into the sea,’ and does not doubt in his heart, but believes that what he says will come to pass, it will be done for him. Therefore, I tell you, whatever you ask in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours. Believe Jesus is Lord and believe He died on the cross to forgive us from sin and He arose again. This is a simple truth. Every one of us has sinned. He is able to break the chains of sin. Ask Him.
I would love to discuss any questions you might have or comments you might have. Leave me a comment.
Until the next time, God bless you and keep you from all harm. I’ll post next Sunday on October 27.